JIAYOUJIAYOUJIAYOU!!!
yepps! it's the end-of-year dreads for most of us! exams! hahas.. know it's very and extremely tiring for alot of you! so here's some exercise for your very precious neck!
don't you just feel so much more relaxed now? hahas.. let's all really be the head and not the tail for God's glory ya?
mat6:33 seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
let's all really work hard, but at the same time, remember to do our quiet time ya? let's all come together at the end of the year with loads and loads of testimonies to share ya?
jiayous guys!
don't give up when there's still time, for it's not over yet..
~rAch ! gambade!!!
GOOD COMMUNICATION=GOOD RELATIONSHIP
yepps. think! i was actually talking to my friend the other day when we happened to come to this topic. alot of people actually say the wrong things . one incident my friend mentioned which both of us felt quite strongly about. a guy said to a girl, "when do you have your pms?"
yeaps. that's how important thinking is. as the old chinese saying goes, "三思而行"[ in english, "think before you act") the same goes for talking!
what you say and how you communicate makes a huge difference in how people respond to you. your words can take you places, or it can come back to haunt you when you least expect it.
communication plays a big role in building relationships.
what you say, or perhaps, just the way you say it may hurt a person, unknowingly. you may go, "i didn't mean to hurt you.". but what's come out of your mouth, cannot be taken back. if you really did not mean to hurt that person, why couldn't you be more thoughtful before you let the words out of you lips?
some of us may even say, "i'm just stating facts.". yepps, but the truth is not always pleasant. we have to know who we're talking to, and how to hint to that person, or break the news gently. being honest and blunt is not always useful.
communication is an art.
so guys! let's all make an attempt to develop this seed from the bottom of our hearts ya? it's not only for the benefit of the cellgroup, but for yourself! for what harm does it do to have more good friends around you? it does always feel good to have friends you can lean upon in times of need. so let's all build good relationships with one another ya? unity will begin to prosper in our cellgroup!
cheers~
rAch =)
